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What did we learn about the Aprina Paul/Nathan Middleton tragedy?

Posted in Uncategorized with tags , , , , on June 19, 2014 by chasinthenews

Nathan Middleton was sentenced to over twenty years in prison yesterday.

 

Aprina Paul’s death was a tragedy.   She was a beautiful young lady.    She made mistakes .

Nathan Middleton is a troubled person.  Has a criminal history.

What I also learned is how common it is in the Madison area for young girls , high school girls to be having sex for money.

I have heard more and more stories about young high school girls selling them selves.   Why work for 7.25 a hour when you can make 100.00 bucks for a couple of hours work.

It is a very sad, and growing problem.    They either do not think about the dangers or they do not believe it will happen to them.

What is worse is there are men, recruiting these young ladies.    It’s hard to believe in this day and time that are young women are not more aware and educated about the dangers.

Then again like I said some just do not care , or worry.   They think they are invincible.

When I spoke with Aprina Paul’s mom months ago I mentioned the change she could make by speaking to youth groups/women’ s groups about what happened to Aprina.

I hope so day she can find the strength to do that.

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A little chat about Aprina Paul..with her mom.

Posted in Uncategorized with tags , on January 7, 2014 by chasinthenews

I had a small brief chat with Aprina Paul’s mom.   I was impressed with the fact she contacted me.

She feels my comments about her daughter are way off.  Harsh some may say.

I did not mean to come across as harsh as I may have to some.   A beautiful young woman has died.

In our chat I did stick with my opinion that …….

1.  She made mistakes.

2.  She did not deserve to die for her mistakes.  Even though I did remind her we do not know at this point how she died.

3. I let her know my biggest hope from this tragedy would be that young girls/woman learn from this.  That I would hope at some time in the future she can take the tragedy that happened to her daughter and raise awareness about the dangers of hooking up with some one who you may have talked to on line, but have never met. There are so many young woman who think they are invincible.

4.  I suggested to her that she quit responding to comments she finds on-line, it’s not worth her time.  In the end its the daughter that she knew that matters, not what anyone else thinks.

5. I stressed one last time I would like her to raise awareness about the dangers of online line hook ups.

6.  She said she was going to ‘pray’ for me.   I suggested she pray for her own family.

I also pointed out that its hard for me to digest some of her comments online when ,  she tells people to ” f off ”  and then says she will pray for them.   I flat out told her telling people to ” f off” and using God in the same sentence just does not work.

7.  She claims the ‘ cops have it wrong. ”   they do not know .   Really?   It sounds like a mother in denial , yet she told the police ( and this will be public record.), that her daughter was working as an escort.   Aprina’s friends have told the police that she was working as an escort, and sold and did drugs.  Once again public record.   So what do the police have wrong?     NO mother wants to admit their child did these things and it led to her death I understand that.    But to insist the cops are lying?

8.   I told her I absolutely believe Nathan Middleton will get what he has coming to him.  I honestly hope he never gets out .   He is clearly not wired correctly.

I  am sorry for her and her family.   No one should have to go through what they have had to go through.

But I also do not believe they will fully grieve/recover from this until they face the cold hard facts.

It was a very respectable chat we had.    I respected her as a grieving mother and I think she has a better idea where I am coming from.

I hope some day the family can find some peace and maybe at the same time bring some change and awareness  of the dangers to online dating/hookups/partying , what ever.

Suspect in corpse burning suspected of soliciting to escape from jail –

Posted in Uncategorized with tags , , , , , , , , on December 14, 2013 by chasinthenews

This guy truly is a idiot.

I have followed this case closely as have many in our area.   But I have gotten to see some things first hand , having Aprina’s family as neighbors.

I have empathy for their loss.  But I am embarrassed by how they have conducted themselves.   Having a fund-raiser scheduled before her body was even found?  It only took them less than a week to find her,  so what does that say about this so-called fund-raiser.

They have made this case about race.  I followed their facebook page for a couple of days and it quickly became a very racist page.  They lied to the media when interviewed, and then got caught in their own lies when the police reports came out.

They actually thought the national news was going to cover this and tried to get them to.  Why would the national news cover this?   She sadly was found , not alive, but found.    Some one is in custody.

They claimed the police had not given them answers.  well the police can not give answers they do not have.

Quite honestly they thought it should be covered by national media because she was black.  Like they were entitled.  I will point out, and they need to realize Nancy Grace and CNN cover crime against black people all the time, and usually right away.  They did not in Aprina Pauls case I believe because , she was found, there is a suspect,  and because of her back ground.

It is just a fact the hookers/prostitutes DIE every day in America.   YOU do not see the national news cover them.   Is this a flaw in the way we think as a society, or is it just hard to have a lot of sympathy for people who are adults and put them selves in this position?

Her family keeps saying ” She did not deserve what she got.”    Well NO of course not,  NO one deserves to die for their mistakes.   She made many.  But what exactly did she get?    WE may never know.    I personally think she O. D..   she was a drug user.  It’s not out of the question.

Middleton clearly did not want to go back to prison, he had been there before.  SO WHY would he take such a risk and kill her?

He should not have burned the body, but lets keep in mind for what we know now,   SHE WAS Already GONE.    She was in a much better place.   For her family yes it is horrible the thought.

HER family talks of God a lot,   but its funny how people use God when its convenient.  The rest of the time they live in away that God would not be impressed with.

It’s just the hard , cold facts.

Middleton will spend years,  and now more years for attempted escape in prison.   IF the test results from Aprina come back that she died in some murderous way he will be in prison for life.

The saddest part of this story is her family and friends knew what she was doing, selling drugs, using drugs, selling her self and did nothing.  These things have gone on for years .   They lied to the media,  and only told the police because they had to tell them, what she was doing.

This family has so tried to play the race card, to make it about race.  They are just embarrassing  them selves.   They should be a shamed.

Their behavior makes it hard to have sympathy/empathy for them.

Family of Fitchburg woman tells police she worked as escort | News – Channel3000.com

Posted in Uncategorized with tags , , , , , , , on November 21, 2013 by chasinthenews

For the last couple of weeks her family has posted on their Facebook page that Aprina was not a hooker/escort/prostitute .  They claimed she did not do drugs.

Really.

Did they really think what they told the police was not going to become public record?

We knew from living by this girl was she was doing.  The police knew about both the drugs and the prostitution , at their home many times.

Classmates coming forward saying she was working as a prostitute in high school.

Now we are finding out she was SELLING DRUGS.  I am sorry but this entire sad story never would have happened if she had not answered that ad.

WE so need to raise our daughters with respect for them selves, with self-confidence, and to get an education.

I am glad to hear Middleton will be back in prison for longer than what I originally thought.  He is just a scary man.

I find it hard to believe he would have gone back to prison longer for a probation violation than what he is facing now.

What I really hope is her siblings learn from this.   That they choose a different path in life than Aprina did.  That they stay in school,  find some respect for them selves,  and live their lives in a way that would honor Aprina.

Family of Fitchburg woman tells police she worked as escort | News – Channel3000.com.

GazetteXtra | Authorities arrest Nathan Middleton on charges of hiding, burning body of Aprina Paul

Posted in Uncategorized with tags , , , , , , , on November 14, 2013 by chasinthenews

These are the charges I expected.

GazetteXtra | Authorities arrest Nathan Middleton on charges of hiding, burning body of Aprina Paul.

 

Did Aprina Paul overdose on drugs?

Posted in Uncategorized with tags , , , , , , , on November 12, 2013 by chasinthenews

I think its as much a possibility as any other speculation out there.

Did Aprina Paul overdose on drugs?.

What is wrong with these little girls/young woman?

Posted in Uncategorized with tags , , , , , , , on November 10, 2013 by chasinthenews

 

There have been so many cases of missing young woman/little girls lately.   From the news media reports they have all left on their own.

There is/was a girl missing from Watertown who has been declared a run away and I have not heard of her being found yet.

This last week there was the story of the missing girl from Marshall- who has now been found.

This last week the missing girl from Waukesha County- who has been found in Chicago.

 

Then sadly the Aprina Paul story which ended in tragedy.

Why are these young girls/little girls/young woman making such bad choices?   It is just scary lately the number of missing young girls/woman from our area.

 

 

 

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