A little chat about Aprina Paul..with her mom.

I had a small brief chat with Aprina Paul’s mom.   I was impressed with the fact she contacted me.

She feels my comments about her daughter are way off.  Harsh some may say.

I did not mean to come across as harsh as I may have to some.   A beautiful young woman has died.

In our chat I did stick with my opinion that …….

1.  She made mistakes.

2.  She did not deserve to die for her mistakes.  Even though I did remind her we do not know at this point how she died.

3. I let her know my biggest hope from this tragedy would be that young girls/woman learn from this.  That I would hope at some time in the future she can take the tragedy that happened to her daughter and raise awareness about the dangers of hooking up with some one who you may have talked to on line, but have never met. There are so many young woman who think they are invincible.

4.  I suggested to her that she quit responding to comments she finds on-line, it’s not worth her time.  In the end its the daughter that she knew that matters, not what anyone else thinks.

5. I stressed one last time I would like her to raise awareness about the dangers of online line hook ups.

6.  She said she was going to ‘pray’ for me.   I suggested she pray for her own family.

I also pointed out that its hard for me to digest some of her comments online when ,  she tells people to ” f off ”  and then says she will pray for them.   I flat out told her telling people to ” f off” and using God in the same sentence just does not work.

7.  She claims the ‘ cops have it wrong. ”   they do not know .   Really?   It sounds like a mother in denial , yet she told the police ( and this will be public record.), that her daughter was working as an escort.   Aprina’s friends have told the police that she was working as an escort, and sold and did drugs.  Once again public record.   So what do the police have wrong?     NO mother wants to admit their child did these things and it led to her death I understand that.    But to insist the cops are lying?

8.   I told her I absolutely believe Nathan Middleton will get what he has coming to him.  I honestly hope he never gets out .   He is clearly not wired correctly.

I  am sorry for her and her family.   No one should have to go through what they have had to go through.

But I also do not believe they will fully grieve/recover from this until they face the cold hard facts.

It was a very respectable chat we had.    I respected her as a grieving mother and I think she has a better idea where I am coming from.

I hope some day the family can find some peace and maybe at the same time bring some change and awareness  of the dangers to online dating/hookups/partying , what ever.

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